啥情况？绵阳一女子恋爱4个月花费对象3万余元，分手后男子起诉女友还钱 ，你怎么看？
<p style="text-align: left;">网上看见的，大家了解一下！<br/></p><p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></strong></p><p><br/></p><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;letter-spacing: normal;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">大家都知道<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span></section><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;letter-spacing: normal;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">谈恋爱交往期间难免需要花钱</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;letter-spacing: normal;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">热恋期间</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;letter-spacing: normal;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;letter-spacing: normal;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></section><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;letter-spacing: normal;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;letter-spacing: normal;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">喊着“宝贝”转账百余次</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;letter-spacing: normal;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">分手后</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;letter-spacing: normal;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这些转账是赠予还是共同消费？</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;letter-spacing: normal;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这些钱能要回来吗？</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;letter-spacing: normal;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></section><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;letter-spacing: normal;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></section><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></section><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;letter-spacing: normal;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">近日</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;letter-spacing: normal;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">盐亭法院就审结了</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;letter-spacing: normal;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这样一起案件</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box 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100%;letter-spacing: 2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 17px;letter-spacing: normal;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">交往4个月</span></strong></span></p><p style="vertical-align: inherit;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 17px;letter-spacing: normal;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">向女友转账3万余元</span></strong></span></p></strong></section></section></section></section><section style="flex-shrink: 0;"><section style="display: 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0px;max-width: 100%;display: flex;justify-content: center;align-items: center;background-image: initial;background-position: initial;background-size: initial;background-repeat: initial;background-attachment: initial;background-origin: initial;background-clip: initial;transform: rotate(0deg);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;display: flex;justify-content: center;align-items: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;width: 20px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section></section></section></section><section style="margin-top: -10px;padding: 1.5em 1em 1em;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;border-width: 1px;border-style: dashed;border-color: rgb(242, 214, 102);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-autoskip="1" style="margin-top: 1em;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;font-size: 14px;color: rgb(242, 214, 102);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size: 17px;caret-color: rgb(255, 0, 0);font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: normal;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">1994年出生的先生，四川资阳人。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></section><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size: 17px;caret-color: rgb(255, 0, 0);font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: normal;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">2021年2月，一次在KTV唱歌喝酒的过程中，他认识了比自己大7岁的盐亭女子张女士，两人很快便确定了男女朋友关系。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></section><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: normal;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size: 17px;caret-color: rgb(255, 0, 0);font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">恋爱期间，王先生通过微信、支付宝向女友多次转账共计3.3万余元，</span><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;caret-color: rgb(255, 0, 0);font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(255, 76, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong>其中不乏520、1314等饱含爱意的金额，最大一笔转账金额为6500元。</strong></span></span></section></section></section><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;display: flex;justify-content: center;align-items: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-width="60%" style="margin-top: -3px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;width: 406.198px;height: 6px;background: rgb(250, 221, 135);overflow: hidden;transform: rotate(0deg);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section></section></section></section><section data-role="paragraph" style="outline: 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hidden;transform: rotate(0deg);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section></section><section data-brushtype="text" style="padding-right: 10px;padding-left: 10px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1.5px;align-self: flex-end;color: rgb(255, 255, 153);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section></section><section data-autoskip="1" style="margin-left: 20px;padding: 1em;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;font-size: 14px;border-left: 1px solid rgb(250, 230, 170);color: rgb(66, 66, 66);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;color: rgb(38, 38, 38);font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: normal;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">2021年7月1日，双方因感情纠纷闹分手，张女士向派出所报警。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;color: rgb(38, 38, 38);font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: normal;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">当日，两人达成了一份《感情协议》，大意载明：两人恋爱期间（3月28日-7月1日），王先生为张婷所花费的钱，包括转账和日常开销都是自己心甘情愿，在正常情况下分手不用归还。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></p><p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;color: rgb(38, 38, 38);font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: normal;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">可是，即便有《感情协议》加持，两人的感情还是很快走到了尽头。</span></p></section></section><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;display: flex;justify-content: flex-start;align-items: flex-start;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;display: flex;justify-content: center;align-items: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;width: 20px;height: 20px;background-image: -webkit-linear-gradient(right, rgb(232, 212, 60), rgb(255, 255, 153));flex-shrink: 0;overflow: hidden;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section></section></section><section data-autoskip="1" style="margin-left: 20px;padding: 1em;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;font-size: 14px;border-left: 1px solid rgb(250, 230, 170);color: rgb(66, 66, 66);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(38, 38, 38);letter-spacing: normal;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(38, 38, 38);outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;">2021年8月，王先生一纸诉状递交到法院，请求判令张女士返还婚约财产3万余元并支付资金占用利息，</span><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(38, 38, 38);outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“我转款是以结婚为目的，不是无条件赠与，既然现在双方没有建立婚姻关系或同居关系，她应当全额返还。”</span></strong></span></p><p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;color: rgb(38, 38, 38);font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: normal;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">对此，张女士则认为，上述款项用于双方同居期间的共同生活开销，是他自愿的，同时双方已于2021年7月1日达成协议，这笔钱并不需要返还。</span></p></section></section></section></section><section data-role="paragraph"><p style="vertical-align:inherit;"><br/></p></section><section data-role="title" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="109692"><section style="text-align: center;margin: 10px auto;"><section style="display: flex;justify-content: center;align-items: flex-start;"><section style="background-image: linear-gradient(to right, rgb(255, 189, 74) 0%, rgb(255, 189, 74) 70%, rgb(255, 255, 255) 70%, rgb(255, 255, 255) 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17px;">这些钱能要回来吗？</span></p></strong></section></section></section></section><section style="flex-shrink: 0;"><section style="display: flex;align-items: center;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;width: 3px;height: 3px;background-color: rgb(253, 234, 131);border-radius: 50%;margin-left: 2px;overflow: hidden;"><br/></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box;width: 3px;height: 3px;background-color: rgb(253, 234, 131);border-radius: 50%;margin-left: 2px;overflow: hidden;"><br/></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box;width: 3px;height: 3px;background-color: rgb(253, 234, 131);border-radius: 50%;margin-left: 2px;overflow: hidden;"><br/></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box;width: 3px;height: 3px;background-color: rgb(253, 234, 131);border-radius: 50%;margin-left: 2px;overflow: hidden;"><br/></section></section><section style="display: flex;align-items: center;margin-top: 2px;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;width: 3px;height: 3px;background-color: 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flex;align-items: center;background-color: rgb(250, 250, 210);border-top-right-radius: 10px;border-top-left-radius: 10px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-left: -1px;padding: 2px 15px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;font-size: 16px;background-color: rgb(247, 216, 121);border-bottom-right-radius: 10px;border-top-left-radius: 10px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(38, 38, 38);font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong data-brushtype="text" style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">盐亭法院审理认为</strong></span></section></section><section data-autoskip="1" style="padding-top: 20px;padding-right: 15px;padding-left: 15px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(35, 24, 21);font-size: 14px;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: normal;"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">男女双方在交往过程中为了取悦对方，增进感情，往往会赠与对方财物表情达意，这种财物并非一概为彩礼性质，该赠与行为具有自愿性、无偿性、合法性。</span></strong></span><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></strong></p><p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 17px;letter-spacing: normal;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">本案中，原告王先生和被告原系恋人关系，原告向被告所转款项发生在双方恋爱期间，从双方自愿达成的《感情协议》来看，原告向被告所转款项和日常开销系自愿付出，原告向被告转款的行为应属原告为了表达爱意维系恋爱关系的自愿赠与行为，该赠与一旦交付，所有权发生转移。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></section><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: normal;font-size: 17px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: 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