【晚8点红包】蜀友们，你们会害怕“拒绝”别人吗？遇到你不想答应的事你会怎么办呢？
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border-radius: 100%; font-size: 18px; line-height: 32px;">话</section></section><section style="overflow-wrap: break-word; max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; margin: 0px; padding: 2px; box-sizing: border-box; border: 1px solid rgb(216, 40, 33); color: rgb(216, 40, 33); border-radius: 100%; transform: rotate(0deg);"><section class="135brush" data-brushtype="text" style="overflow-wrap: break-word; max-width: 100%; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; width: 35px; height: 35px; background-color: rgb(216, 40, 33); color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-radius: 100%; font-size: 18px; line-height: 32px;">题</section></section></h6><p style="overflow-wrap: break-word; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0); overflow-wrap: break-word; font-weight: 700;"></span><strong><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">蜀友们，你们会害怕“拒绝”别人吗？遇到你不想答应的事你会怎么办呢？</span></strong><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0); overflow-wrap: break-word; font-weight: 700;"></span></p><p style="overflow-wrap: break-word; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></p><p><section style="overflow-wrap: break-word; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border: none; margin: 0.5em; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 0px;"><section style="overflow-wrap: break-word; max-width: 100%; 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text-align: center; text-decoration-line: inherit;"> </span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: 微软雅黑; overflow-wrap: break-word; font-size: 10.5pt;"> </span><strong><span style="color: rgb(84, 141, 212);"><span style="font-family: 微软雅黑; overflow-wrap: break-word; font-size: 10.5pt;">在生活中，<span style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; text-align: center; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); overflow-wrap: break-word;">总会遇到一些“不合理”的请求，<span style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; text-align: center; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); overflow-wrap: break-word;">当提出这些“请求”的是最熟悉的人时，<span style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; text-align: center; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); overflow-wrap: break-word;">往往会害怕因为拒绝而显得“不义气”，</span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 微软雅黑; text-align: center; text-decoration-line: inherit;">想拒绝但却不懂得怎么拒绝，到最后伤害妥协的只有自己，小编就是这样一个人，大家遇到这种情况会怎么处理呢，快来教教我和大家。</span></span></strong></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: 微软雅黑; 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拒绝并不可怕，主要是有些人往往答应了的事情都不会兑现那才是最恼火的
不要害怕你的拒绝会伤害你和朋友们之间的友情，如果珍惜你们的友谊，自然会理解你的难处和苦衷，而不是咄咄逼人。 对于一般的请求，有能力做到就答应，无能力，也就手长衣袖短了。 要分什么事情了，有的事情会委婉拒绝，有的事情尽力而为 看事情选择拒绝不拒绝
如果自己不想答应的找借口一个哦 每个人都会遇到一些事情和困难的，根据实际情况而定吧，说明原因顺其自然就好了，相信彼此都能理解的……